Will it really help me?+
No one can honestly guarantee an outcome. What research does show is that most people who remain engaged in regular therapy experience meaningful improvements in wellbeing and functioning. The strongest predictor of success is not a particular technique, but the quality of the relationship with the therapist.
That is why the first consultation is free: it allows you to see whether you feel sufficiently safe with me. If there is no movement after several sessions, we address this openly and, if needed, adapt the approach or I refer you elsewhere.
How long does therapy take, and how often do we meet?+
A session lasts 50 minutes, usually once a week. For a clearly defined issue, 10 to 20 sessions may be sufficient; deeper or long-standing difficulties can take longer—from several months to a year or more. We agree on a framework at the outset and review it as we go. The decision to continue is always yours.
When will I notice the first changes?+
Many people feel some relief after the first few sessions simply because they have finally voiced their distress. Lasting change in entrenched patterns generally takes several months. At times, you may briefly feel worse as we touch on painful subjects; this can be part of the process, and we discuss it openly.
What happens in the first session?+
There are no forms and no tests. You share what is troubling you—as much as you feel able to. I ask a few questions to understand the situation and explain how I work. At the end, we decide whether and how to continue. You do not need to prepare anything in advance.
Is the first consultation really free?+
Yes. The first consultation is free and carries no obligation. It is an opportunity to meet and decide together whether working together makes sense.
Is everything I say confidential?+
Yes. Everything you say is professionally confidential. I do not share it with anyone without your explicit consent. The only exceptions are circumstances defined by law involving an immediate risk to your life or someone else’s. With couples and families, confidentiality rules are agreed clearly and equally for everyone at the outset.
How is therapy different from talking to a friend?+
A friend cares about you and wants the best for you, so they may comfort, advise or protect their image of you. A therapist is a trained observer outside your personal story: they recognise and name patterns and stay with you even where it feels uncomfortable. The relationship is structured, confidential and focused entirely on your benefit.
Do I need a referral or diagnosis?+
No. Private psychotherapy does not require a referral. If you already have a diagnosis or take medication, it is helpful to mention this. Therapy can complement treatment from a doctor or psychiatrist, but does not replace it.
What if I do not know what to say?+
This is common and entirely all right. You do not need to arrive with a prepared story. We begin with what is present today—even if that is simply awkwardness or the feeling that you do not know where to start.
Can I come alone if my partner does not want to?+
Yes. Individual work can significantly change a relationship because your part in the pattern changes. A partner is never pressured; if they later choose to join, they are welcome.
Are online sessions available?+
Sessions usually take place in person at the practice, as direct contact offers the most. Online sessions can be arranged when meeting in person is not possible.
How do I book?+
Email damjan@svetovalnica.com with a brief description of the issue and your telephone number. I will call you back within 48 hours to arrange an appointment. There is no need to include sensitive details in your email—we can discuss them when we speak.
Where do sessions take place?+
At the practice at Vojkova 63 in Ljubljana. Parking is available by the premises.
What if I need help right now?+
If you are in acute distress or thinking about harming yourself, do not wait for an appointment. Call 112 or the Samarijan and Sopotnik confidential helpline on 116 123, available 24 hours a day, every day.
What if the therapist is not right for me?+
It happens, and there is no offence taken. Research consistently shows that the quality of the therapeutic relationship matters more than the method, so it is right to seek someone with whom you feel safe. If you do not feel that with me, I will help you find a colleague or another suitable form of support.
Will I have to relive painful experiences?+
Not by force, and not on the first day. You set the pace. We approach painful material only when sufficient trust and inner support are in place. You can always say that you do not wish to discuss something that day, and I will respect that.
What if I cry or cannot find the words?+
Tears, silence and searching for words are entirely normal in therapy. None of these is a sign of weakness; often the opposite is true—it can be the moment when something begins to shift. The space is made for this.
Can I stop whenever I want?+
Yes. Taking part is voluntary, and leaving is always your right. I only ask that we discuss it in a session—a planned ending that reviews the work completed is far more valuable than disappearing without a word.
Why is the fee not listed on the website?+
Because the scope and frequency of sessions are agreed individually. I explain the fee clearly and in full during the free initial consultation, before you decide anything—without hidden costs or obligation.
What if I cannot attend an appointment?+
Please let me know as soon as possible, ideally at least 24 hours in advance, and we will find another time. Regular, pre-arranged sessions support the effectiveness of therapy, so we both aim to honour the agreement.
I take medication prescribed by a psychiatrist. Is therapy still worthwhile?+
Yes, and the combination is often the most effective. Medication can ease symptoms, while psychotherapy addresses patterns, relationships and questions of meaning. I do not make decisions about medication or advise against it—that remains the responsibility of your doctor.
Can I bring my child or the whole family to therapy?+
Family sessions are available by arrangement. I usually begin by speaking with the parents, after which we decide together who should attend. If I believe a child needs specialist support, I will say so openly and refer you to an appropriate professional.